GRACE,  GREED  &  GRATITUDE
I Sam. 20:14, II Sam. 4:4, 9:1-13, 16:1-4, 19:15-30

And Jonathan, Saul's son, had a son that was lame of his feet.
He was five years old when the tidings came of Saul and Jonathan
out of Jezreel, and his nurse took him up, and fled: and it came to pass, as she
made haste to flee, that he fell, and became lame. And his name was
Mephibosheth

Mephibosheth and Ziba are not exactly household names. Nevertheless, the story of their relationship with David and with one another reveals so much about their character.  David, the man after God’s own heart, is found to be Gracious.  Ziba, the overlord of King Saul’s vast holdings is found to be Greedy, and Mephibosheth, son of Jonathan, son of Saul, is found to be Grateful as well as faithful in the extreme.

To set the stage for this real life drama, we must go back to I Samuel 20:14 where Jonathan and David are confirming their bond of love.  Jonathan, recognizing that God will place David upon the throne of his own father Saul, requests that David remember to be kind to Jonathan’s offspring when he sits upon the throne. This was very important in that time when new kings often eliminated all traces of the former king’s lineage so that all claims to the throne would also be eliminated.  This practice has always existed in those kingdoms where blood is the prime qualification for succession. A classic example in Scripture is II Kings 11:1  which reads … And when Athaliah the mother of Ahaziah saw that her son was dead, she arose and destroyed all the seed royal. This was her attempt to prevent anyone claiming the throne from her. (Click here to see the January 98 article “King Athaliah was no Lady”) So, when the day came that both king Saul and Jonathan his son were killed on the same day, there was the expectation that David would kill all of the surviving potential heirs to King Saul. The nurse who had the charge of Jonathan’s son Mephibosheth took flight with the child to protect him from death.  As she ran, the child was dropped and fell to the ground and was crippled for life. He was taken away and kept in hiding until the day he was called forth by David. (II Sam. 4:4)

Now, we come to II Sam. 9:1-13.  David has time to consider the promise he made many years before, and so he asks if there is anyone left of the house of Saul to whom he can show kindness and grace.  Ziba is called before the king and announces that there is one remaining son of Jonathan. Then Mephibosheth is also summoned to present himself before David, no doubt fearing for his life. But instead he is granted amnesty and freedom and with one word from David, he is also made very very rich.  He is to be lord of all the domain formerly held by King Saul and Zeba and his sons are to continue caring for the property and working the fields.  Mephibosheth himself will reside in the royal presence and eat at the king’s table.  This is not a fairy tale, and so we do not read “and they lived happily ever after”.  In point of fact, the saga is just beginning.

There came a time when David’s own son threatened the kingdom and David was forced to flee from Jerusalem and dwell with his troops in the surrounding hills. During this time  Ziba hatched a plan of Greed. He loaded a variety of fruits and drinks upon animals and went out to where David was camped. He offered the bounty in his own name saying that Mephibosheth did not come with him because he had thoughts of regaining the throne of his grandfather Saul.  It was of course a lie, but David took him at his word and pronounced a change in the arrangement. From now on Ziba would own all that was formerly given to Mephibosheth.  Mephibosheth was now restored to his state of poverty, without so much as a moment to defend himself.  What a travesty of justice. What greed! Remember that Ziba was practically the owner of all this wealth even before the treachery was perpetrated, since he and his family were the supreme caretakers. And now after David’s new decree he owned nothing new except the title “owner”.  (See II Sam. 16:1-4)

Where is Mephibosheth during all this time of intrigue?  Jump ahead to II Sam. 19:13 and you will find the next installment in this tragedy. David is now about to return to Jerusalem with his kingdom once again secure. As he approaches, all Judah comes out with joy to meet him. Among them is our man Mephibosheth. Where has he been? He has been praying and fasting in mourning garb all the time that David has been gone and in danger. How faithful and grateful this man was to his king.  He now tells David of the lies of Ziba, and accepts the judgment of David.  David once again makes a snap decision and pushes aside the details of the matter and orders the splitting of the fortune between the greedy Ziba and the grateful and faithful Mephibosheth.

Our first thought when we read this portion is to condemn David.  Obviously he is not concerned to get to the bottom of this mess and to settle it justly.  But let us not be as hasty as David was.  We may not be able to justify David, but we may be able to at least understand the pressure that was upon him. He was burdened with many things that were much more important to him than Mephibosheth or Ziba … or Saul and Jonathan for that matter. Look at what took place in his life between the time he decided to be gracious to Mephibosheth and the time Mephibosheth met him upon his return.

1.     He embarked upon the Ammonite-Syrian military campaign.

2.     He commits adultery with Bethsheba, impregnates her, kills her husband, marries her, has a son, losses a son, has another son named Solomon.

3.     David and Joab conquer Rabbah.

4.     David’s son Amnon has an incestuous relationship with Tamar, his sister.

5.     Absolam, another son of David kills Amnon.

6.     Absalom revolts against David.

7.     David forgives Absalom.

8.     Absalom again revolts against David.

9.     David flees Jerusalem.

10.  Shamei curses David.

11.  Absalom enters Jerusalem as an enemy.

12.  Joab kills Absalom

Wow!  That’s a lot of stuff to deal with!  Perhaps if we cannot excuse David for his lack of fair play, we can at least understand why he did not give the matter his full attention.  There were simply too many more important things happening at the same time.  But in spite of the ill treatment that Mephibosheth received he still comes across as a man of character.  His values are shown to be on a higher plane than his adversary.  He cares nothing for the worldly goods, but rejoices that his Lord David is back safe.  As for Ziba, getting half the inheritance by deception, Mephibosheth says:                      

Yea, let him take all, forasmuch as my
Lord the King is come again in peace
Unto his own house.

  And so comes to pass that we have Mephibosheth recorded in the Word of God for all time for good while Ziba is likewise recorded for evil. This righteous man understood the significance of elevating the spiritual above the temporal.

Let us learn from this narrative. On the positive side we are exhorted to be gracious to our enemies, as was David and to be grateful for our blessings as was Mephibosheth. On the negative side let us not struggle for that which rusts and suffers corruption nor act with  deceit, as did Ziba. Let us not be so quick to hear evil reports against anyone, but let us exercise enough patience to ensure that we have heard the entire matter before we dare to make a judgment.